Fun fact: When I first started
coaching the cross country/track team at Marist early in 1991, I had no
coaching experience. None! The only somewhat relevant “experience” I had on my
resume was a few weeks as a counselor at my college coach’s running camp –
Beginning Trails Running Camp (Hill Busters!) – and the fact that I was a
runner. Other than that? I had no clue had to guide a team, manage a team,
coach a team. Cynical folks would say after all these years, nothing has
changed. Ha! Of all the newness of the job, recruiting was the one area that
was totally foreign to me. Recruiting is selling; I was a runner and a
journalist. I knew nothing about selling, other than the “product” (Marist
College). Talk about flying blind.
Today’s Pandemic Papers interview is with Todd Coulson. Everyone knows Todd as “Lurch.” It was the nickname given to him in college and it remains to this day. Far from derogatory, the nickname is loaded with affection and the admiration of a wonderful human being. Whenever I say his name or think of Lurch, a big smile comes to my face. He says here that after our first meeting, he felt like I was his big brother. That feeling persists to this day, nearly 30 years later. Admittedly, I had no clue what I was doing when I recruited Lurch and the rest of what would become the class of 1996. They were my first full recruiting class, having met them during that first season as coach (1991-1992). As the saying goes, sometimes the blind mouse finds the cheese. Even though I was clueless in the realm of recruiting nearly 30 years ago, somehow quality human beings found their way to our program.
It’s amazing that as the decades
have flown by, Lurch has always been in a constant presence in the life of our
program and in my life. We ran the inaugural Rock and Roll Marathon in San
Diego back in June of 1998, and then hung out for a few days after the race –
even taking a side trip to Tijuana together, which was … interesting. For so
many years, until a family of his own made life impossibly busy, Lurch would
show up unannounced to watch our distance runners – guys he didn’t know and
never ran with -- under the lights on the Thursday nights at Penn Relays. I
always remember Lurch being underdressed for the usually cold nights. Lurch may
be the skinniest person in our program’s history – very tall and very lean.
He’s all gangly legs and arms and smiles and a heart of pure gold. Lurch has
come back to Poughkeepsie, frequently, to run the Dutchess County Classic, the
defunct Walkway and Fox Trot race, usually staying with his former teammate, roommate
and good friend Bucket (“David Swift”). In the process, he has made strong
connections with several generations of younger alums. No one embodies the
sense of family we have tried to build over the past several decades than
Lurch. Heck, Lurch IS family. So, for those of you who have never met him, take
a ride down memory lane with me and with us, and hopefully some day in the
future you’ll meet Lurch at a road race or an alumni reunion. You’ll leave with
a smile on your face, guaranteed.
I know it was a long time ago, but describe the process of how you
became interested in Marist and how you chose Marist over other schools? This
was very early in my coaching career in terms of "recruiting" ...
refresh my memory?
Recruiting for me was trying to
gain any attention from schools for running as opposed to schools
come to me (and a lingering love of basketball, but I knew that was an
even longer shot since I didn't really play competitively for my school).
Sports were an important part of my life, and I wanted to incorporate
it in, but Business school was still my highest priority. And my grades were slightly
above average at Archmere Academy, a private school in Claymont, DE.
In retrospect, I am still amazed at how over prepared for college I
was, but at the time, I was diagnosed with a learning disability, and I
was highly interested in the Special Needs system that was in place at
Marist College. Before coming to Marist, I had taken the SAT, with extra
time to allow me to have less pressure to take the test. I scored a good
150 points higher because of that extra time, and I have always had problems
with standardized testing and to this day I still feel like I read slower and
sometimes lose concentration to get the overall theme of a story. So, when
I heard about the special services program that would be a crutch if needed, it
was a big help in my decision to come to Marist, but as I said
earlier, I really only used them my freshman year, because my high school was
far better at preparing me with proper study skills to handle the college
landscape.
I still remember visiting Marist
and meeting you for the first time, it was like meeting my big brother. You
were fair and honest, you told me I might not be able to travel with the team
initially but that you could find a way to work me onto the
team. I still remember feeling very positive that my experience at Marist
was off to a good start. My second choice was St. Joseph's University, good
Business School, small school feel with outstanding facilities, close to
home, and when I went to meet the cross country coach, he wouldn't even take 5
minutes out of his day to meet with me. Pete, you not only took time out of
your schedule to meet with me, you met my parents too. It just felt like home,
even though it was much farther away. It's those little things in the world,
that make the difference.
Not many student-athletes from Delaware look at Marist. What drew
you to our school?
Honestly those were the days of
brochures. I remember I had a book of schools that I perused and toured various
schools along the East Coast. As I said before the Special Services program and
the high rank of the Business School enticed me to take a trip up there to see
the school.
Talk about your background as a high school runner and how that
prepared you for your collegiate career?
I only ran track in 5th grade
during grade school. My grade school had no such thing as cross country. In
those days I was pretty much eating, sleeping basketball from 4th to 8th grade.
Basketball was my favorite sport, but I was scrawny with little endurance.
Well, I never made up for the scrawny, which caused problems for me making my
high school basketball team, but to prepare for the endurance side of
basketball I took up cross country. I still remember my coach's speech to 8th
graders to recruit them for it. You get to run around parks, and build up
endurance for basketball, I was in. My first day of XC was eye opening to say
the least. I barely finished 2.5 miles, my legs were screaming and I was in
pain for 3 days. I am not sure what kept me going to practices through that
time, because I had not run over the summer, like most kids probably did. I was
training for 5k's and had never really even run a race longer than an 800m
before in my life. But much like you Pete, my coach, John Jordan was close in
age to us, he was probably mid 20's and again, felt more like a big brother
than a teacher or a coach. He made running fun - far different than my 5th
grade track memories. I was not fast my Freshman year, but it didn't matter, I
was building friendships, and I was learning the sport. By the end of the year
my times were probably around 23 minutes for a 5k. My high school career had
many similarities to my collegiate career, ups and downs, but always on a
forward track toward improvement in running that lead to improvement in
life. I trained really hard the next year, I ran track my freshman year
but finished dead last in most of my races. In XC, I was middle of the pack for
30 boys, but track was more spread out and not all of the XC runners ran track.
So I found myself at the bottom looking up. But I had built up a thirst for
getting faster. I ran all summer, and built up my endurance. I still remember
preseason for XC - once, a sprinter from track was talking about the prospects
of our team with one of our better runners - and he mentioned me as one of the
bright spots for the upcoming season. My work was paying off. I don't remember
all of my times, but much like college, I improved from a 23 minute 5k to about
a consistently low 19 minutes a 5k during both my Junior and Senior year. I
knew that wasn't getting me any recruiters for colleges, but I felt confident
in my abilities. I thought running in college was definitely on the table for
me.
Talk about your heart condition and how that affected your ability
to train and race at a high level. How are you managing that currently?
I am not sure if that had any
effect on being able to run at a high level or not. I have always had a heart
murmur, so I cannot compare not having one to having one. But in my sophomore
year of high school I was diagnosed in Delaware (won't name the hospital) of
having Mar Phan Syndrome. The proceeded to tell me that I had to work on sports
like archery or bowling. This crushed me that year, it happened right after my
cross country season. So I skipped track for my sophomore year. My parent
thankfully paid for an appointment in Johns Hopkins with a doctor who was one
of the foremost experts in the country on Mar Phan Syndrome. He diagnosed me
and did verify the murmur, but also said the precaution of the Delaware
hospital was probably due to growth spurts that lead to my heart also growing
at a fast rate. This is the reason for the alarm sounding in doctors’ offices
in Delaware. How did that affect me afterward? I had to take
amoxicillin for dental appointments until I was 25. That is really the
only treatment I have had for it. And it really hasn't affected me much. I am
looking to get an echocardiogram soon though, I just recently asked my
doctor for one. Because my Dad has had elective surgeries on his heart to keep
him from having arrhythmias, and I expect I will also need something similar
down the line. So I think I need to just have my heart checked once corona
quarantine is over.
I know it's a long time ago, but what are some of your fondest
memories of your time at Marist?
I am not sure where to start.
Those years were special for me, and I am not sure if any other school could
have given me as much of a rich experience. I have been lucky to run with such
a family-oriented team, many of whom I cherish friendships over Facebook, even
if we do not get together in person. When we do meet up, it is like no time has
passed. That is when you know you made the right choice of schools.
One great memory is when I was
given "Lurch" as my nickname. Now I was teased as a kid, mostly in
grade school, at an all-boys school, so it can be ruthless and unrelenting. In
high school I had nicknames, but mostly initials, like "TC". So, when
I was told at a party by Bucket and Chris O'Keefe that I was going to be called
Lurch, I was like, really? Not again, a lumbering, weird looking dude on Adams
Family, my heart started to sink, when I asked why, they said "stand
up" - "That's why!" All of my grade school fears melted away and
it was one of the first moments I had known I fit in on this team.
My sophomore year we also shaved
our heads for IC4As.
What did you major in at Marist, and how did it prepare you for
your career path?
Business Administration, and
it's funny, it didn't directly prepare me, but it did in many ways
tangentially. Since, Marist was such a great communications school, I took an
elective of web design my Senior year of college, this was my first computer
course that related directly to my full stack web development skills that I
have today. I also find myself constantly using my business sense to work with
clients, figure out needs of clients, and generally plan for all of the needs
of a project.
Describe your career path -- what you did post-collegiately and
what you are doing now?
After leaving Marist, I went to
the Art Institute of Philadelphia (which has since disbanded) for an Associates
Degree in Multimedia, and in 2013 I graduated from Villanova University with a
Master's Degree in Software Engineering. Right after the Art Institute I worked
at Haley Productions in Media, PA (now called Allied Pixel). This gave me a lot
of chances to create my own projects. Back then I primarily coded in Flash and
ActionScript and worked mostly with Adobe tools. As the industry has turned
more toward JavaScript I have also shifted my career. I currently work at
American Reading Company as a Full Stack Web Developer, and have been there for
just under three years.
Talk about your post-collegiate running. You've done a lot of
races and a lot of marathons. What are some of your post-collegiate racing
highlights, PRs, etc. And what are some of your future goals?
I would say the only times I
have really not been running is when both of my kids were born, I took about three
months off from running for both kids. I started running marathons right after
college. I ran the Mayors Midnight Sun Marathon in Anchorage, AK. I still do
not know how that brochure ended up in the mailbox at Marist, but the second I
opened it during my senior year, I knew I wanted that for my graduation present
to myself. So, I raised $3,000 for Leukemia Society of America and went on a
great trip with six total runners from Delaware chapter of the organization.
The marathon itself was sort of a bust, I went out fast, felt an injury late in
the race and walked part of the course. I finished in 3:27 and somehow held on
for third place in my age group. I continued running marathons over the next
few years, running Marine Corps Marathon in 2:58, Scranton Steamtown Marathon
in 2:56 (current PR) and Philadelphia in about 3:06. I have run nine marathons
total, including one in San Diego's Rock and Roll Marathon with you (also for
Leukemia Society), but I do not think I ever ran one injury free. After Flying
Pig Marathon in 2008, I felt pain so bad in my side I was hurt from mile 3 of
that race, this is when I knew aches and pains were not just from dealing with
the marathon distance, but it was something else. That ended up being a sports
hernia in my upper right leg. I had surgery at Drexel Hannaman Hospital and
have not run marathons since. Not simply because of the injury, but also
because of time to train and kids, and life. But I do still have the itch every
now and then. I have not stopped running though, mostly half marathons and for
the past three years I have run the Bucks County Winter Series - https://www.bcrrclub.com/winter-series/winter-series-schedule-2019-20-season/.
It is 12 races through a hilly Tyler State Park. Races range from 5k to half
marathon. I have done every race in the series my first year and this past
year. Lately with coronavirus, I have taken to the streets more, my mileage is
up, and I am looking for ways to keep motivated for when I feel I am ready to
take on new challenges.
Your wife is running for Congress. Here you go: a free chance to
plug her on this blog ... GO!
Christina Finello is running in
the First Congressional District on Pennsylvania (PA-1) https://www.govtrack.us/congress/members/PA/1.
She is running on the Democratic ticket and has her primary on June 2nd.
So a long time ago, my Mom told
me you should always be involved in your local political races because it is
where you can make the most impact. If we all went out and made sure only good
people were elected, then we would be putting good people in charge of our
country. It all trickles up. At the time, I was all "Yeah Mom". But
now being married to my wife, I get it. She is without a doubt the single
person in my life, who I thought, could handle helping our communities through
government. The only person who comes close is her father, our
Magisterial District Judge. She graduated from University of Pennsylvania,
has degrees in both Psychology (PhD from Drexel) and Law (JD from Villanova),
and most recently was acting as Director for Bucks County's Division of Housing
and Human Services enhancing the lives of and well being of the people of our
county.
Here are the ways you can help
support and keep up with her campaign:
Website: https://www.finelloforcongress.com/
Donation Link (thru ActBlue): https://secure.actblue.com/donate/christina-finello
Twitter: @FinelloForPA
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FinelloForCongress/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/finelloforcongress/
Donation Link (thru ActBlue): https://secure.actblue.com/donate/christina-finello
Twitter: @FinelloForPA
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FinelloForCongress/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/finelloforcongress/
How are you and your family managing and coping with the
Coronavirus situation? What are your thoughts on how we are managing it and the
future of it?
Families of all types are
dealing with this crisis in different ways. Our kids are having a hard time
dealing with not being with their friends on a consistent basis. It has
also opened up a whole new world on Facebook kids messenger, where they can
interact with their favorite BFFs. But the thing is - everyone has a
different story but the common thread is that we are all trying to navigate
this uncertainty. As for the future, I am focusing in living in the
moment, helping my family get through our day and make sure my kids feel
secure. To safeguard the health of the community, I think it is most
important to practice social distancing and keeping washing our hands. Exercise
is also extremely important for the health of our mind. I am sure most of the
readers of this blog are exercising in some way, but it is a missing ingredient
from lives of many people right now. That is one message I don't think can be
out enough, with all of the gyms closed, it is super important to use extra
commuting time for exercise and make sure to continue engaging in self-care.
You've been back to Poughkeepsie many times, to run the Dutchess
County Classic and other road races. Describe for our younger readers the
difference in the Marist College you attended vs. the Marist College circa
2020.
First of all, tisk tisk to the
Walkway Marathon people. They had a nice little race going, I was super excited
that void got replaced by Dutchess. I really like having that purpose and
reason to keep coming back. It is important to me to see Marist, our athletes
who just graduated and are jumping in those races, and older alumni who were
part of my teams. It is cool to go to those events and feel part of the
community again. When I graduated, we were the first class to graduate in front
of the Rotunda on the grass. I am not even sure if that is where graduation
happens now, but it was special; 1996 was also the year before the weight room
was finished (the first time, I heard it has even been renovated since then).
Our weight room was first on the second floor of McCann Center, which was the
big joke when a hole developed from weights being dropped on the ground. Then
it was moved into a racquetball court, until I graduated. Funny part is, those
crappy weight rooms were a big part of my success in college running
development. Currently the school is completely changed, except for that Rotunda
and dorms like Sheahan and Leo, etc. We didn't even get the new library, the
current students would be shocked with the library at our school in the 1990s.
But we were one of the first colleges with Internet access across campus. That
was huge in 1994 trying to finish papers didn't mean relying on that library
that lacked resources anymore.
What message can you relay to our seniors who lost their final
outdoor track seasons and their final few months of their senior year?
So being a big basketball fan,
when the news first hit - my wife's school Penn was going to be the 4 seed in
the Ivy league tournament - and I remember one of the commentators saying, they
should have played with no fans, those kids played all year and they just gave
the title to Yale. How little we knew at the time, that it was just the first
domino to fall in a series of events that rocked the whole world. Every single
one of us in this world is going through so many trials and difficulties. Most
notably the health care workers, anyone exposing themselves to the virus
through work on a daily basis. And then probably you, the seniors and the
athletes that have to think of a year lost. A time when you need to prepare to
enter the workforce, and you are thrust into the middle of a pandemic. It is a
confusing time for us all, but yours is especially unique. We can all throw clichés out
there, and they have all been said. But the one I keep coming back around to:
"this too shall pass." We get through hard times together. Rely on
your family, rely on those who got you to this point in your career and your
life, and use the experiences of the past 3 1/2 years to propel you forward.
One great thing about the XC program at Marist is it is life. I talked to other
alums of other programs, and they are proud of their programs too, but I don't
feel the energy I feel when I talk about Marist. Facing a hard day, Pete is
there. Need a friend, there are former teammates. This program is truly a
family, and I am proud to be a part of it. Oh, also one last piece of advice I
heard on job searching. Do whatever you can to minimize the gaps in your resume
- Coronavirus is only going to make finding a job that much harder. Volunteer
jobs or internships may seem like a step backward, but they can lead to
interesting opportunities. Do whatever you can to find sources of income and experience
so long as it is moving you down the path to your ultimate career goal.
What message would you like to relay to current returning team
members and prospective team members?
College is a great experiment.
XC is a great experiment. Track is a great experiment. Let it continue to be a
blueprint for how you can experiment with life in the years after college and
beyond. The only person who can keep your down is you.
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